12.31.2009

Five Years.



This has been our most amazing, most challenging and most rewarding year yet. We have grown in ways we could not have imagined before this year. We have learned so much about the selflessness involved in being parents. We are learning together what it takes to keep our marriage strong and centered admist all of the stresses of balancing two jobs and a baby. We have seen the most exhausted and most vulnerable versions of each other. We have laughed together daily. We have spent many precious moments together watching our baby grow. We have said many prayers of gratitude for the gift we have been given in each other. We have been greatly blessed in year five.

The Guthries ~ Established December 31, 2004.

12.29.2009

Holiday fun...

Our holiday started several days early with a little celebration at home just the three of us. Next, we went to Georgia to spend Christmas with my family plus my aunt, uncle and cousins. We had such a wonderful time enjoying each other and loving on Annabelle...it was just what Christmas should be.


Annabelle had been pulling ribbon off packages all week!


A new pair of shoes from mama and daddy for the rapidly growing feet!
Annabelle with her new "Lolly Dolly" and frog towel.
The entire crew in on Christmas Day. It was such a treat to have so much family together this year.

Miles, Jesse and Marlene having fun.

Annabelle enjoying her Nana.

Mason and Mattison playing one of many games of Settlers.

Cousins that should be brothers - Miles and Jimmy.

All of the Guthrie/West/Torres girls.
Proud mama with my precious girl.
Our first Christmas as three.

Playing with a new toy from Nana and Grandad.

She loves her books from Ellen and Jimmy.
The tissue paper was a big hit.

We made a little side trip on the way home to see Joy and Jordan. We were so glad to be able to spend some time with our "friends that are really family" and see their new house!

Annabelle's shirt says "best gift ever". It could not be more true.

12.28.2009

Eight Months...

Annabelle,

You are 8 months old today!
- You have changed so much in the last month. You have started to develop such a delightful personality...opinionated, funny, easy to make laugh, adaptable, curious, adventurous, and so sweet. Lately, we have been seeing parts of your disposition that make us think we might be seeing a little bit of who you might be in the years to come. We think you will be very determined, extremely joyful and up for anything. We hope we do all we can to parent you in a way that allows you to keep these beautiful characteristics.

- You are the happiest when you are on the go...crawling, pulling up on things, trying to climb up and over, cruising around things, and trying to stand on your own. When you are being held and want to be down, you just arch your back until you slide onto the floor.

- You are eager to try new foods...so far (besides your baby food) you have had tried waffles, grits, mashed potatoes, broccoli, sweet potatoes, bananas, toast, cheese, cheerios, yogurt, scrambled eggs, biscuits, and acorn squash.

- You absolutely adore your Nana. You just laugh and smile anytime you see her, even if it has only been 5 minutes since you were last with her. Over Christmas, you turned down your mama in favor of your Nana. She feels the same about you. We all do, actually.
- You wear 12 month clothes and size 3 shoes. At your doctor's appt. last week, you weighed 20 pounds and 8 ounces.

- You have been sick almost all of this month, but you are still a happy girl. We have felt terrible that we can't seem to get you well. The last few weeks have been our hardest by far. You have had such a hard time sleeping laying down - so your dad and I have spent a lot of nights letting you sleep on our chests so that you could breathe.

- You had the most wonderful first Christmas (more on that later), and you were just delighted by everything from the decorations to the tissue paper in gifts. We have a snowman that plays music and lights up - it has made you laugh and laugh all month!

- You started to indiscriminately say mama and dada. We can't wait until you say them just to us!

- You favorite friends are our dogs. You have started following them around in your walker. You hold your arms out, squeal with glee, and run after them as fast as you can. They do not like that so much...they do, however, like the food that falls off of your highchair.

Happy 8 months, baby girl ~ We love you!

12.25.2009

MERRY CHRISTMAS!



12.20.2009

Happy Birthday, Lacey!!

I have heard for some time that a gentleman never asks a woman her age. In that spirit, I won't divulge Lacey's age in this space. If you are lucky enough to know her well, you already know. I'll just use this opportunity to let y'all in on a few things that I love about this girl.

There are things that I am challenged with that come very easy to Lacey. She is simply a whiz at simple math, house chores, and knowing what to say. "House chores" seems like a chauvinistic thing to say, but I do not mean it that way at all. I'll explain. When Lacey was home with Annabelle, I would regularly come home to a spotless house, piles of neatly folded clothes, and a hot dinner. To contrast, I was recently home with Annabelle, and all I could accomplish was vacuuming the rug in one room. Lacey has the gift of accomplishing many tasks at the same time and getting them done with extreme efficiency. I am constantly in awe of how much she is able to finish in any given time. To boot, everything she does, she does well. She has talent beyond compare.

Her main strengths are her capacity to listen to situations, process all of the possibilities, and then come to reasonable conclusions. Our marriage has benefited from this a number of times. I take advantage of this strength whenever I can. I have this funny feeling that her family and close friends know this is a strength of hers, too.

Infectious is the word that I would use to describe Lacey's laugh. We love to laugh in our house. I try to make her laugh at least once a day. I know that I have succeeded when she throws her head back or starts wiping tears from her eyes. Lacey's sense of humor has evolved past that of a twelve year old boy's, and that adds a degree of difficulty.

Reading is another of those things that Lacey is much better at than I am. She reads voraciously. Reading is such a part of Lacey's life that it bounds on addiction. She is an avid reader with a wide variety of tastes. Lately, she has taken an interest in historical fiction. That was a complete surprise to me. That's a fun thing about thinking you know someone so well. Whenever there are surprises, they are much larger than they would have been otherwise. If we play our cards right, our little ones will take after their mother and develop a love of reading much earlier in their lives than I did.

There's no denying that I am not comfortable with words. Heck, this post probably took about three hours to write. Lacey never has trouble expressing herself to people. Words just come natural to her. Her specialty is words of affirmation, and she shares them without prejudice strengthening all of those around her.

You could not find a lovelier wife for me or mother for Annabelle. Lacey was put here on Earth for us. There is not a day that goes by without me giving thanks to God for bringing her to me.

12.18.2009

Sugar and Spice...


It was this week last year that we found out that our precious baby was a baby girl. I vividly remember laying in the ultrasound room with tears streaming down my face while Jesse squeezed my hand over and over. We were going to have a daughter - we were thrilled. I immediately began thinking about names and nursery decorations, while Jesse started worrying about how we were going to keep the boys away from her.
A daughter...we are still in disbelief that we have been so blessed.

12.14.2009

She's up...

How could you not love this sweet face!


Baby's bag of tricks...

Well, this weekend, Jesse and I met our first "what in the world do we do about this?" parenting moment.

Annabelle is pulling up now and she means business. If it can support her weight, she will shimmy herself up to standing. The first day or two we oohed and aahed with "new" parent fascination and awe! Pictures were taken and videos were made (which will be shared this week for sure!) Our baby girl is mobile and standing - we couldn't believe it! Then naptime and nighttime came...but who needs sleep when you can STAND UP?!? All day (and night) long - STANDING UP. Here is the new routine - standing, then crying for help, then falling, then crying, then soothed by mama, then standing...again and again. We rocked her to sleep; we tried patting her back in her crib; we used a sleep sack. The minute we lay her back down, she is right back up. It is precious and all, but holy goodness we need some sleep - all of us do! The words "duct tape" were even uttered sometime in the night by my sweet husband. He kids. I think.

What do we do? Does this just last for a while and then stop?

12.08.2009

Look at her go...

Just a little something for the grandparents!

12.05.2009

Crawling...

Our girl is crawling all over the place these days!
Her favorite place is the Christmas tree! Needless to say, we can't take our eyes off of her for a minute or she is pulling off ornaments!
She just can't resist the shiny lights!
The little stinker even learned how to manuver her walker up onto the rug!


Glittery Ornaments = Delicious!

12.03.2009

A Few Haiku for You

Born wrinkly and wet
Daddy gave me my first bath
He can’t stop smiling

Asleep all the time
Can’t control my tiny limbs
Mom and Dad love me

Beginning to smile
Folks keep trying to make me
Laugh for them. Dance clown!!

Mom loves me so much
It hurts her heart to leave me
I won’t remember

I flirt with mirrors
I flirt with shiny objects
It cracks people up

Loud sounds startle me
My quivering bottom lip
Says I’m going to cry

I’ve started crawling
I’ll be mobile any day
Ooh, what’s over there?

G-T-U-G-A
Can’t believe the mutts beat us
Twenty-Four - Thirty

Caring for us all
It’s tough being a wife and mom
We love her for it

11.28.2009

Happy Belated Thanksgiving!

I am sitting here about to watch the Georgia Tech vs. UGA game, and I thought it might be a good time to post some Thanksgiving pictures. Jimmy & Jesse are at the game... I am on the couch at the mountain house with my mom, dad & grandma. I have to admit, while it is nice to be warm & cozy, I am really wishing I was there too! I have followed my normal pattern of getting sick everytime we travel anywhere, so I decided that 4 hours of frigid night air would probably not be the smartest decision.

So, here are some Thanksgiving weekend highlights...

Annabelle had a fantastic holiday weekend being loved on by our families! We loved having so many days off with her!

Brothers acting much more mature and serious than they really are!

Getting reacquainted with her Uncle Jimmy!
Relaxing with Lola.

Papa and Grandad giving their girl some attention. She really didn't get much of that this weekend...can you tell?

Showing off her precious Thanksgiving dress.

Spending some quality time with Grandad!

Laughing with Nana!

Eating her first waffles - she loved them!
She made "mmmmm" sounds the entire time and kept begging for more. This was her first finger food - she did so well with it that I think it is time to start adding more!

Working the room in her walker.

Hope y'all had a wonderful holiday, too!

Seven Months!

How has another month flown by so quickly? Annabelle, You are 7 months old today!

- You have started "talking" to us more and more! Lots of new sounds and raspberries!

- In the last few days, you have started holding your little arms out and reaching for your mama (which I love) and you have also started whining/crying when I am somewhere that you can't see me (not quite as cute).

- You started crawling today! You have made it all the way across a big blanket to get to your toys several times now!

- You are eating three meals a day and still nurse/bottle five times each day.

- You weight 19 lbs, 2 ounces and are wearing 12 month clothes.

- You laugh and smile all of the time...especially when you are feeling comfortable or being held by mom and dad.

- You have had your first ear infections/colds this month - you have been such a little trooper!

- You adore bright colors and sparkles...we were in a store with a brightly decorated Christmas tree last week, and you just laughed and laughed at it! Everyone in the store was just tickled at your excitement!

- You are waking up really early every morning, so your daddy plays and talks with you in our bed while I get ready for work. Listening to you two together is one of the best parts of my day!

You have filled our lives with such joy...we couldn't be more thankful for you!

11.22.2009

A belated celebration!

We were about three weeks late starting our newest family tradition since things have been so crazy around here, but we decided to go ahead with our plans.
The 1/2 birthday!
We are hoping this will be a time in the coming years that we can celebrate our child ( and hopefully, children) in a fun and creative way. I have ideas in the future of doing some fun 1/2 decorations, 1/2 plates, etc...but this year we just did a 1/2 cake. Jesse said he was going to take our kids "halfway to the park or halfway to the toy store." The man makes me laugh - and for that I am so thankful!
This girl had no trouble figuring out that this was something she should be interesting in eating!

Tasting the tiniest bit of pink icing.

Definitely a success!

I have been thinking a lot lately about making sure that we are not just "getting by" each day. That we don't get so caught up in the busy routine that we let this time slip by without being truly present in each moment. That we are making a point to treasure this phase of life with quality time together and lots of special traditions...and cake - everything is better with a little pink icing!

11.20.2009

A Day with My Daughter

Today was my first solo day with Annabelle. We had some hang-ups, sure, but I think things went pretty well. We even stayed within 45 minutes of our schedule. I blame this on Annabelle. I was ready for her to eat, but she insisted on napping for an extra hour...curled up looking all cute...on my chest. I did nothing to discourage this because I am treasuring the little one that still wants to cuddle.

Annabelle and Lacey have had a hard couple of weeks since Annabelle's entrance in to daycare. Within 4 days, Lacey and I had our very own sick kid. Lacey and I were sick a couple of days later. We've managed to get better, but Annabelle's nose has not stopped running. During these trying times, we have learned that our little bundle of germs despises only one thing about being sick. Nemesis, thy name is boogersucker, or technically, the bulb syringe:

On a different subject entirely, Annabelle and I ran some errands today. If our errands were going to take us to Milan, Paris, or even the mall, I probably would have considered changing Annabelle's clothes. Luckily for Annabelle, my resident fashionista caught us before we left the house. I learned that the overall cuteness of this little thing...

...would be shattered by the hideous ensemble that I had chosen. Observe:

Looking back at the pictures, I see a color scheme that becomes a not-so-well-adjusted comic book prankster. This was not apparent to me when I made the above wardrobe choice. I now see the error of my ways. The valuable lessons learned are:
  1. Tops and bottoms that are sold together are the most likely bet for a match.
  2. It is possible to be too daring with colors.
  3. If using cartoon characters as templates for attire, stay in the realm of Strawberry Shortcake. Raggedy Ann is a stretch.
Would it make anyone feel better to know that I wore a green long sleeve T-shirt and a pair of jeans with roofing tar stains all over the thighs? I didn't think so.